There is no biblical sex ethic. The bible knows only a love ethic, which is constantly being brought to bear on whatever sexual mores are dominant in a given country, culture or period.
No more divisive issue faces the churches of this country today than the question of ordaining homosexuals. Like the issue of slavery a century ago, it has the potential for splitting entire denominations. And like the issue of slavery, the argument revolves around the interpretation of Scripture. What does the Bible say about homosexuality, and how are we to apply it to this tormented question?
We may begin by excluding all references to Sodom in the Old and New Testaments, since the sin of the Sodomites was homosexual rape, carried out by heterosexuals intent on humiliating strangers by treating them "like women," thus demasculinizing them. (This is also the case in a similar account in Judges 19-21.) Their brutal gang-rape has nothing to do with the problem of whether genuine love expressed between consenting persons of the same sex is legitimate or not. Likewise, Deuteronomy 23:17-18 must be pruned from the list, since it most likely refers to a heterosexual "stud" involved in Canaanite fertility rites that have infiltrated Jewish worship; the King James Version inaccurately labeled him a "sodomite."
Several other texts are ambiguous. It is not clear whether I Corinthians
6:9 and I Timothy 1:10 refer to the "passive" and "active" partners in
homosexual relationships, or to homosexual and heterosexual male
prostitutes. In short, it is unlcear whether the issue is homosexuality
alone, or promiscuity and "sex-for-hire."
With these texts eliminated, we are left with three references, all of
which unequivocally condemn homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22 states
the principle: "You [masculine] shall not lie with a male as with a
woman; it is an abomination."
The second (Lev. 20:13) adds the penalty: "If a man lies with a male as a
woman, both of them have committed an
abomination; they shall be put
to death, their blood is upon them."
Such an act was considered as an
"abomination" for several
reasons. The Hebrew prescientific understanding was that male semen contained
the whole of nascent life. With no knowledge of eggs and ovulation, it was
assumed that the woman provided only the incubating space. Hence the spilling
of semen for any procreative purpose -- in coitus interruptus (Gen
38:1-11), male homosexual acts or male masturbation -- was considered
tantamount to abortion or murder. (Female homosexual acts and masturbation
were consequently not so seriously regarded.) One can appreciate how a tribe
struggling to populate a country in which its people were outnumbered would
value procreation highly, but such values are rendered questionable in a world
facing total annihilation through overpopulation.
In addition, when a man acted like a woman sexually, male dignity was
compromised. It was a degredation, not only in regard to himself,
but for every other male. The patriarchalism of Hevrew culture shows
its hand in the very formulation of the commandment, since no similar
stricture was formulated to forbid homosexual acts between females.
On top of that is the more universal repugnance homosexuals tend to feel
for acts and orientations foreign to them. (Left-handedness has
evoked something of the same response in many cultures.)
Whatever the rationale for their formulation, however, the texts leave
no room for maneuvering. Persons committing homosexual acts are to
be executed. The meaning is clear: anyone who wishes to base his or
her beliefs on the witness of the Old Testament must be completely
consistent and demand the death penalty for everyone who performs
homosexual acts. This was in fact the case until fairly recent times --
hence the name "faggots," which homosexuals earned while burning at the
stake. Even though no tribunal is likely to execute homosexuals ever
again, a shocking number of gays are murdered by "straights" every
year in this country.
The third text is Romans 1:26-27, which, like Leviticus 18 and 20,
unequivocally denounces homosexual behavior:
No doubt Paul was unaware of the destinction between sexual orientation,
over which one has apparently very little choice, and sexual behavior.
He apparently assumes that those whom he condemns are heterosexual,
and are acting contrary to nature, "leaving," "giving up," or "exchanging"
their regular sexual orintation for that which is foreign to them.
Paul knew nothing of the modern psuchological understanding of
homosexuals as person whose orientation is fixed early in life,
persons for hom having heterosexual relations would be contrary to
nature, "leaving," "giving up" or "exchanging" their usual sexual
orientation.
Likewise the relationships Paul describes are heavy with lust; they
are not relationships of genuine same-sex love. Paul assumes that
venereal disease is the divine punishment for homosexual behavior;
we know it as a risk involved in promiscuity of every stripe, but would
hesitate to label it a divine punishment, since not everyone who is
promiscuous contracts it. And Paul believes that homosexuality is
contrary to nature, whereas we have learned that it is manifested
by a wide variety of species, especially (but not solely) under
the pressure of overpopulation. It would appear then to be a quite
natural mechanism for preserving species.
Nevertheless, the Bible quite clearly takes a negative view of
homosexuality, in those few instances where it is mentioned at all.
And the repugnance felt toward homosexuality was not just that it was
deemed unnatural but also that it was considered unJewish, representing
yet one more incursion of pagan civilization into Jewish life. But
this conclusion does not solve the hermeneutical problem of our
attitude toward homosexuality today. For there are other sexual
attitudes, practices, and restrictions which are normative in Scripture
but which we no longer accept as normative:
These cases are relevant to our attitude toward the authority of Scripture.
Clearly we regard certain things, especially in the Old Testament, as no
longer binding. Other things we regard as binding, including legislation
in the Old Testament that is not mentioned at all in the New. What is the
principle of selection here? Most of us would regard as taboo
intercourse with animals, rape, adultery, prostitution, polygamy, levirate
marriage and concubinage -- even though the Old Testament permits the
last four and the New Testament is silent regarding most of them.
How do we make judgements that these should be taboo, however? There exist
no simply biblical grounds, for as I have tried to show, in other respects
many of us would clearly reject biblical attitudes and practices regarding
nudity, intercourse during menstruation, prudery about speaking of the
sexual organs and act, the "uncleanness" of semen and menstrual blood,
endogamy, levirate marriage, and social regulations based on the assumption
that women are sexual properties subject to men. Obviously many of our
choices in these matters are arbitrary. Mormon polygamy was outlawed in
this country, despite the constitutional protection of freedom of religion,
because it violated the sensibilities of the dominant Christian culture,
even though no explicit biblican prohibition against polygamy exists.
(Jesus' teaching about divorce is no exception, since he quotes
Genesis 2:24 as his authority, and this text was never understood in
Israel as excluding polygamy. A man could become "one flesh" with more
than one woman, through the act of intercourse.)
The problem of authority is not mitigated by the doctrine that the cultic
requirements of the Old Testament were abrogated by the New, and that only
the moral commandments of the Old Testament remain in force. For most
of these sexual mores fall among the moral commandments. If Christ is the
end of the law (Rom. 10:4), if we have been discharged from the law
to serve, not under the old written code but in the new life of the
Spirit (Rom. 7:6), then all of these Old Testament sexual mores
come under the authority of the Spirit. We cannot then take even
what Paul says as a new law. Even fundamentalists reserve the right
to pick and choose which laws they will observe, though they seldom
admit to doing just that. For the same Paul who condemns homosexual acts
as sinful is the Paul who tells women like Anita Bryant to remain silen
in the church (I Cor. 14:34). If Anita Bryant were consistently
biblical, she would demand that gays be stoned to death -- though
she would enver be able to say so in church!
The crux of the matter, it seems to me, is simply that the Bible has
no sexual ethic. There is no biblical sex ethic. The Bible only
knows a love ethic, which is constantly being brought to bear on
whatever sexual mores are dominant in any given country, culture, or
period.
Approached from the point of view of love, rather than that of law, the
issue is at once transformed. Now the question is not "What is permitted?"
but rather"What does it mean to love my homosexual neighbor?" Approached
from the point of view of faith rather than of works, the question ceases
to be "What constitutes a brach of divine law in the sexual realm?" and
becomes instead "What constitutes obedience to the God revealed in the
cosmic lover, Jesus Christ?" Approached from the point of view of the
Spirit of the rather than of the letter, the question ceases to be
"What does Scripture command?" and becomes "What is the Word that the
Spirit speaks to the churches now, in the light of Scripture, tradition,
theology, psychology, genetics, anthropology, and biology?"
In a little-remembered statement, Jesus said, "Why do you not judge for
yourselves what is right?" (Luke 12:57). Such sovereign freedom
strikes terror in the hearts of many Christians; they would rather
be under law and be told what is right. Yet Paul himself
echoes Jesus' sentiment immediately preceding one of his possible
references to homosexuality: "Do you not know that we are to
judge angels? How much more, matters pertaining to this life!"
(I Cor. 6:3). The last thing Paul would want is for people to respond
to his ethical advice as a new law engraved on tablets of stone. He
is himself trying to "judge for himself what is right." If now
new evidence is in on the phenomenon of homosexuality, are we not
obligated -- no, free -- to re-evaluate the whole issue in the light
of all available data and decide, under God, for ourselves?
Is this not the radical freedom for obedience which the gospel
establishes?
It may, of course, be objected that this analysis has drawn our
noses so close to texts that the general tenor of the whole is
lost. The Bible clearly considers homosexuality a sin, and whether it
is states three times or 3,000 is beside the point. Just as some of
us grew up "knowing" that homosexuality was the unutterable sin, though
no one ever spoke of it, so the whole Bible "knows" it to be wrong.
I freely grant all that. The issue is precisely whether that biblical
judgement is correct. The whole tenor of the Bible sanctions slavery
as well, and nowhere attacks it as unjust. Are we prepared to argue
that slavery today is biblically justified? The overwhelming burden
of the biblical message is that women are inferior to men. Are we
willing to perpetuate that status? Jesus himself explicitly forbids
divorce for any case (Matthew has added "except adultery" to an
unqualified statement). Are we willing to forbid divorce, and
certainly remarriage, for everyone whose marriage has become intolerable?
The fact is that there is, behind the legal tenor of Scripture, an even
deeper tenor, articulated by Israel out of the experience of Exodus
and brought to sublime embodiment in Jesus' identification with
harlots, tax collectors, the diseased and maimed and outcast and poor.
It is taht God sides with the powerless, God liberates the oppressed,
God suffers with the suffering and groans toward the
reconciliation of all things. In the light of that supernal compassion,
whatever our position on gays, the gospel's imperative to love, care for,
and be identified with their sufferings is unmistakably clear.
Many of us have a powerful personal revulsion against homosexuality -- a
revulsion that goes far beyond reason to what almost seems to us an
instinctual level. Homosexuality seems "unnatural" -- and it would be
for most of us. I myself have had to struggle against feelings of
superiority and prejudice in regard to gays. Yet for some persons
it appears to be the only natural form their sexuality takes.
This feeling of revulsion or aliennes, or simply of indifference, is
no basis, however, for ethical decisions regarding our attitudes
toward homosexuality. It seems to me that we simply need to acknowledge
that for the majority of us who are heterosexual by nature this deep
feeling amounts to nothing more than prejudice when applied to
others. It has no sure biblical warrant, no ethical justification.
It is just the way we feel about those who are different. And if we
can acknowledge that profound prejudice, perhaps we can begin to
allow others their preferences as well.
I want to close by quoting a paragraph from a 1977 address by C. Kilmer
Myers, bishop of California, before the Episcopal House of Bishops:
Now that this issue has become one that none of us can dodge, what will
be the nature of our response?
Other Practices
Adultery, Prostitution and Polygamy
No Longer Binding
The Problem of Authority
A Profound Prejudice